Is He Cheating on Me? Find Out This Christmas
10 Ways to Tell if He’s Cheating on You
It’s the most wonderful time of the year….well…for some of us.
Many of us know that we tend to spend holidays, birthdays, and special occasions with those who are truly significant, important, and add value to our lives. Christmas is no exception; in fact, it is THE holiday when women determine they are the Only One in their significant other’s life.
I hear stories all year long from women talking about this guy and that guy, but when it comes to the holidays, especially the Christmas holiday, he’s nowhere to be found and she’s sitting at home alone watching ‘Home Alone’ (pun intended). Women also, tend to consider some acknowledgement during the holidays as genuine care and concern, which is why a lot of men tend to get away with their cheating ways. In my honest opinion, if you two do not spend the entire day together, chances are he needed his time apart to let someone else know how important they are.
Here are KI’s Top Ten signs that you’re not the only one this Christmas:
10. You receive a mass “Merry Christmas” text message or yahoo greeting card that doesn’t even include your name.
9. He doesn’t call, come by, mail a gift, or even send a text/email.
8. He doesn’t come by until later that night, or only stays no longer than a half hour during that day.
7. Finding a gift, days before Christmas that YOU THINK is for you, and then when Christmas day arrives you don’t receive it…….
6. The gift he did purchase for you is very generic and has no sentimental value.
5. He starts a fight right before Christmas and doesn’t call you until days after.
4. He suddenly has to go “somewhere” and he doesn’t want to take you.
3. He lies and says he’s hanging with the guys for the remainder of the evening. You call one of the “guys” and they have no clue what you’re talking about; nor have they heard from him all day.
2. He wants to spend Christmas with his kids. This can be tricky depending on the level of the relationship, but proceed with caution.
1. He suddenly converts to a non-Christian religion but back to the paganism come NYE.
So ladies, recognize the signs not only this Christmas, but for the other holidays, birthdays, and special events and occasions throughout the year. Of course, we’re all adult enough to know there are exceptions to every rule, but don’t make exceptions, excuses, or ignore the obvious. Have a very special, safe, and blessed holiday season.
Merry CHRISTmas and Happy New Year!!!
Your Friend,
KenyaInez
