Astonishing Cheating Spouse Secret
Infidelity, whether sexual or emotional, is a painful occurrence for anyone to experience. The betrayal of a cheating husband drives a sharp stake right into your heart, leaving you shattered and devastated.
After discovering their cheating husband has stepped out, many heartbroken women seek relationship advice. They want to understand, above all, why their husbands cheat on them. “He cheated on me! Why did he cheat? How could he cheat? I gave him everything!”
Sex is Most Commonly Assumed Reason To Cheat…
Sexual desire for other women is the most common reason people assume for sexual affairs and infidelity. “Oh, men are just dogs, all of them,” some women – and men – reason. “It’s in their nature to cheat, and there’s nothing you can do about it.”
But, this “common knowledge” is actually an incredible fallacy. Yes, that’s right, I said this is a completely false “truth” about cheating. Despite what societal stereotypes report, the most common reason for infidelity is not sex. Yes, sex is more than likely involved, but the real reason is even more unlikely than you may think… and it starts in the heart.
The truth about cheating is that it’s not all sexual. Studies by experts such as Gary M. Neuman and Mira Kirschenbaum have determined that unfulfilled emotional needs, not sex, drive men to have emotional affairs or sexual infidelities.
Most long-term relationships are built on a solid emotional foundation. Within the early stages of the relationship, the couple establishes intimacy in a comfortable environment that allows them to feel close and confide in one another. As time progresses, and the couple falls into a more routine, day-to-day pattern, they often stop putting in the same effort to maintain the emotional intimacy they shared with one another.
Sex, when it happens, doesn’t replace emotional intimacy in a solid relationship. Sex is inspired by the intimacy (and, of course, the physical connection), and further enhances it, bringing the couple closer. So, when a your cheating husband experienced emotional needs that he felt were unmet with you, this lead him elsewhere, and ultimately, sexual intercourse with your husband’s affair partner was simply a devastating yet natural progression of their affair. This is not to say that your husband’s cheating is justifiable, or rational. He could have chosen to deal with the problems in your troubled marriage head-on before moving on to another woman – or simply filed for a divorce. However, now that you’re aware of this, you have the power to make a more informed decisions about what to do next.
Now that you’re highly aware of how unfulfilled emotional connections leave your husband vulnerable to sexual infidelity, it’s time to take action. Regularly sustaining an intimate, supportive and romantic relationship with your husband is the best preventative measure to affair-proof your marriage. However, if he’s already cheated, and you want to fix your marriage, take the time to learn how to win your cheating husband back from his affair.
