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The Real Reason You're Being Cheated on – It Doesn't Involve Blowjobs

Sexual Infidelity Troubled Marriage Relationships

But, this “common knowledge” is actually an incredible fallacy. Yes, that’s right, I said this is a completely false “truth” about cheating. Despite what societal stereotypes report, the most common reason for infidelity is not sex. Yes, sex is more than likely involved, but the real reason is even more unlikely than you may think… and it starts in the heart.

The truth about cheating is that it’s not all sexual. Studies by experts such as Gary M. Neuman and Mira Kirschenbaum have determined that unfulfilled emotional needs, not sex, drive men to have emotional affairs or sexual infidelities.

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How Do Babies and Death Create Infidelity?

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Sexual affairs and emotional infidelities can be triggered by high-risk, high-stress times in life, such as the death of a loved one or the birth of children. Life changes and their roles in extramarital affairs are discussed.

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Boyfriend is a Bartender. He Cheated Once, Can I Trust Him Again?

You cannot accept his infidelity as a “slip”, because it wasn’t a one-time incident. Slips are moreso accidental f*ck-ups . A slip-up is when a man’s drunk and has a one night stand, or he has a no-strings-attached hookup after you guys argue. Additionally, slips are unplanned and usually come with lots of regret. (Not that this makes things acceptable.) What he had was a consistent series of trysts with another woman. He deliberately lied to you each and every time he was going to see her as well, making this anything but a “mistake.” If anything, the fact that he got caught acting a fool with this woman is the mistake.

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