So, start dating your spouse again. Plan specific events to attend together, all with the goal of learning to enjoy each other’s company all over again. Make things exciting. Don’t just go to dinner and a movie. Choose a small, local restaurant known for delicious entrees yet only enough room for undersized tables and minimal space, forcing you two to sit closer. Rent a lush, expensive Bed & Breakfast that will allow you to make love with the extra novelty of exploring each other’s bodies in a “strange”, “new” place you’ve never been before. Try something crazy and new together, like whitewater rafting, or parasailing.






