Dave Carder

3 Spicy Things to Learn From Affairs – Use Them to Spice up Your Marriage in 5 Minutes!

When people have affairs, they sneak time away from their normal lives to see each other, enhancing the anticipation and excitement and increasing the feelings of appreciation between one another. Even if they only have 90 minutes and it’s 30 minutes both to and from their meeting place, the illicit couple will enjoy the precious 30 minutes they have together.

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Is Your Relationship At Risk for An Affair Right Now?

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Windshield wiper marriages are frought with bickering, criticism, teasing and open conflict and anger towards one another. As marriage expert Dave Carder writes in Close Calls, “they are like a set of windshield wipers- close in proximity, but always the same distance apart, never meeting, and therefore avoiding intimacy.”

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Exploring all 4 Phases of Infidelity

All too often, the affair partners may return to their marriage and realize that the passion they had in their affairs was exactly what was missing at home. Sometimes, they may attempt to bring that passion back to their marriages in an effort to rebuild with their partners. (Many times, experts indicate that unsually spontaneous passionate behavior like this is indeed a sign of infidelity in one’s spouse.)

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