Can Astrology Predict Sexual Infidelity and Affairs?

According to Vedic astrologer Carol Allen, our birth signs and astrological charts can be a predictable method of determining whether or not a man will be unfaithful, have a high sex drive, or otherwise have a problem lusting after other women. Below is an email she sent out right after the Tiger Woods infidelity scandal broke. Within this email, Alt discusses what she calls Woods’ “porn star planetary combination” that made him prone to the scandalous and torrential sexual affairs he jeopardized his marriage and family for. After reading, tell us what you think – Do you agree that this can justify what Woods did?

Tiger Woods’ Sexual Affairs Were Destined in Vedic Astrology

When the David Letterman scandal hit, a professional women’s chat group I’m part of

went crazy with posts full of outrage and frustration.

A common refrain was, “Doesn’t ANYBODY keep it in their pants anymore?”

The good news? There are MANY faithful men in the world… and research shows that
FAR more married men are faithful than not.

But it’s EASIER for some men than others to “keep it in their pants…” and it can
actually be seen in the stars!

Believe it or not, there are some sub-signs (smaller signs within the signs of the zodiac) that incline a man (or woman!)

to give in to temptation.

And the more a man’s astrological chart is made up of these sub-signs, the more
likely he is to be “weak” in this way…

Do you want to hear something CRAZY???

When I was studying astrology, I was so lucky in that there were several fantastic
Vedic astrologers that all lived in Los Angeles and gave weekly classes.

One of these teachers (my dear friend, brilliant astrologer Steve Stuckey) used
to love looking at the charts of celebrities.

One night he put the chart of Tiger Woods up for all of us to see, and he said
something amazing that’s come true now, years later…

He said, “Tiger’s downfall will be loose women.”

How was he so right on? How could he see such a thing?

Easy…

This same astrologer taught us how to recognize what he called “the porn star planetary
combination.”

It’s a specific combination of the planet of passion (Mars), with the planet of sex
(Venus), with the indicator of the emotions (the Moon).

When a person has Mars, Venus, and the Moon all in some kind of strong relationship
to each other they’ll be HIGHLY sexual… and prone to IMPULSIVE sexual relationships.

And, yup – you guessed it. Tiger’s chart has such a thing.

According to the calculations of Vedic astrology (which differ from those of Western
astrology by almost an entire sign) he has the planet Mars in the sign of Taurus (a
Venus-ruled sign) opposite the planet Venus and the Moon in Scorpio (a Mars-ruled sign).

That’s right – Venus and the Moon BOTH fall in the sign of Scorpio – which is
considered the LUSTIEST sign of all anyway, as it’s the natural eighth sign, the sign
of SEX.

(Scorpio is even considered to rule the genitals in medical astrology).

So Tiger’s wife can comfort herself that his “wandering ways” are NOT her fault.

Tiger would likely wander NO MATTER who he’s with.

His sexual appetite would overwhelm him.

Throw on top of that the fact that he’s an attractive BILLIONAIRE with worldwide
fame who’s often away from home, and you have the recipe for marital disaster…

Sigh.

If we look deeper at his chart, it gets even more interesting.

In Vedic astrology (the system of ancient India, believed to be the very first system
of astrology), there are twenty-seven smaller, more psychologically powerful signs than the
“normal” signs we all know.

These twenty-seven signs are THE MOST important thing to look to when trying to
deeply understand a person and compatibility in relationships.

When looking at Tiger’s Sun, Moon, and rising sign Vedic signs, it’s incredible to see
that ALL THREE are extremely sexually powerful, and are noted for sexual indulgence and
scandals. (As well as success!)

Check it out…

Tiger’s Vedic Moon sign is called Jyeshtha. This constellation is associated with the Vedic
deity Indra who is similar to the Roman God Zeus, noted for his daring deeds, power, fame, glory,
and lothario ways…

I share in my “Signs of Compatibility” program that the themes of betrayal, abandonment,
and jealousy can play out in the lives of those born with the Moon here.

In fact, one of the names of this sign is “the two-faced man” – because those born here
can be hypocritical or secretive.

(They’re also typically the most successful in their family and are known to be heroes,
and achieve an exalted position in life. Albert Einstein had his Moon here – and his
two marriages were fraught with indiscretions and drama…)

Tiger’s Vedic Sun sign is called Purva Ashadha. Amazingly, Purva Ashadha is translated
to mean “the invincible star, the undefeated, the unsubdued” which has contributed to his
unbelievable athletic success, as it’s all about having victory in struggles and
confrontations.

This sign is associated with tremendous popularity and is noted for making people
successful at an early age.

(By the age of three Tiger was on television playing golf with Bob Hope on the “Mike
Douglas Show,” by the age of five he was featured in “Golf Digest” and by twenty-five
he was already an international sensation with over $100 in endorsement deals…)

But on the downside, it’s noted for sexual obsessions or excesses.

Tiger’s rising sign Vedic sign is called Uttaraphalguni.

I am not making this up – it’s symbolized by a bed!

This sign is noted for the accumulation of wealth and also contributes to Tiger’s
incredible popularity, as people born in this sign are generally liked by all, and
live a life in comfort and luxury.

On the downside, they don’t like to be alone, so may be in and out of relationships,
and have a tendency to be sexually indiscreet.

It takes having several factors like this to make someone prone to affairs. (So
don’t freak out if your guy has just ONE of these things… or if YOU do…)

It’s Tiger’s Vedic signs, on TOP of his INTENSE “porn star” celestial combination
that ensured it was only a matter of time before his roving eye was common knowledge.

(And besides, his name is TIGER…)

But seriously, I don’t mean to make fun of any of this… and I sincerely wish he and
his family well.

I just LOVE to point out the POWER of the stars to shape personality and behavior.

Especially the power of the Vedic signs.

They are SOOO accurate!

If you enjoyed this reading, then check out Carol Allen’s e-book Love is in the Stars. To learn more about Vedic astrology and dating, check out reviews of the book Love Is in the Stars: Wicked and Uncensored Astrology Advice for Getting the (Almost) Perfect Guy

Was He Lying When He Said “I Love You?”

Love Detour is an excellent online blog featuring expert advice “devoted to getting your relationships back on track.” The comprehensive site has phenomenal advice, both from featured experts and guests who reply back to other viewers’ questions on love, marriage, sex, dating and all the problems which occur in between.

Dianna wrote in, stating that her relationship ended when she discovered that her boyfriend of “3 months and 29 days” had been cheating on her. While Dianna admits to finding several convincing pieces of evidence suggesting her boyfriend was cheating, she believed his excuses, especially since he treated her nicely and told her he loved her. When Dianna ran into him coupled with another young lady in public, she confronted them to discover that he not only had no explanation for his actions, but ignored Dianna and gave her the cold shoulder while completely while professing his love and apologies to the other woman. Although the cat’s out the bag, to this day, Dianna’s heart and emotions are still raw. She wonders whether or not this man ever truly loved her. “He cheated on me, but did he ever truly love me once? Or was I just a plaything in his eyes the whole time?”

Most of the readers’ comments have been highly supportive, urging Dianna to remove herself from the past, and to use the present to focus on the future.  A few brave souls reminded her that she chose to allow him to explain away all the signs, even though they were in front of her face. “Figure out what went right and wrong in your relationship, and learn from it,” one response stated, as another added, “Remember that nobody will respect you until you respect yourself.”

We felt this advice was completely on point. When you’re betrayed by your cheating boyfriend or husband, it’s hard not to remember all the specific events in which he seemed to put you on a pedestal, but the truth is, no matter how beautiful he made you feel, he still cheated on you, and things did not work out. As you guys don’t have a future, dwelling on his actions only holds you back since you’re stuck in the past and aren’t moving forward.

This isn’t to say your ex-husband never loved you, or your ex-boyfriend never cared. Truthfully speaking, emotions are complicated, and he might have truly cared at some point, but definitely not enough to remain faithful to you. Or, he might have decided that he did love you, but compartmentalized his love for you and the relationship while he cheated on you with other women. Men cheat for different reasons, but make no mistake that if he showed his ass before you found out he was cheating, and never seemed sincere with his actions, you might’ve always known the truth deep down, and continued to ignore it in hopes he’d change.

Either way, you (and Dianna) will be better off when you stop dwelling on whether or not he ever cared, and start working on a path to a happier future as a stronger woman with a man who truly loves and appreciates the beautiful woman you are.

Understanding Why He Cheated On You

Effectively dealing with infidelity requires that you understand the reasons behind your husband’s actions. Your cheating husband isn’t just one of those “cheating men” who seek to score with every woman who gives him the opportunity. Most men who have cheated have never previously seen themselves as the type to cheat, especially when they’re involved with someone they love and are committed to.

Despite what you hear and despite the reasons given, which can be many, there are always three main causes of infidelity within a relationship, and the reason why your husband cheated falls under one or more of these categories.

Personal Flaws

In the book Intimacy after Infidelity, authors Steve Solomon and Lorie Teago, state that those who do not deal with life effectively on a fundamental basis are more likely to be unfaithful. What this means is that, despite the demonizing you wish to subject your husband to, his affair can quite possibly be an ill-advised, unconscious effort to repair something he’s unhappy with in his life.  Paul Coleman, PsyD and author of You, Him and the Other Woman, supports this theory. “Whether life stresses become overwhelming, he’s unhappy at home, or he simply has an immature ‘boys will be boys’ mentality, infidelity is a destructive way to cope.” Coleman also adds that “most acts of adultery are really efforts to feel loved, accepted, desirable or worthwhile.”

Personal values and personality flaws also come into play at this level of reasoning. Men who view cheating on their wives as wrong will work harder to overcome the problems which may have caused this issue, whether they are deep-seated or recent. This includes observing one parent cheating on the other and following that pattern as well.

There’s a huge difference between those who cheat and are willing to fix their weaknesses, and those who simply aren’t interested in being bothered. Truth be told, some men don’t see their cheating as a problem, and may feel entitled to their behavior. Their behavior is indicative of a deep-seated personality flaw, such as narcissism. Due to this, these guys are harder to deal with, as they have a genuine disregard for others’ feelings when it comes to their behavior, and lack true passion and empathy.

Relationship Problems

If your cheating boyfriend points the blame towards the quality of your relationship, you may feel conflicted about this. Though you may agree that your relationship isn’t at its best at the moment, or that you haven’t been the best girlfriend you could be, you still have passionate anger toward the manner your cheating boyfriend handled the situation in. You may also not like the implication that you are part of the problem.

Handle this scenario with kid gloves, if you will. If you refuse to acknowledge where your responsibility lies within his infidelity, he may view your reaction as a refusal to acknowledge his opinion, further driving a wedge between you two. On the other hand, you cannot allow your partner to excuse himself based off this assertion alone. While there were things going on within the relationship, be it lack of attention, compassion or time, he still made the choice to cheat on you, when there were other options available.

While no relationship is perfect all the time, there’s an increased likelihood to infidelity in your relationship if there’s a weak foundation in your relationship and several of the following signs exist:

• Either partner has very low to no sexual desire
• Either of you frequently criticizes the other harshly
• Either partner is rarely given the benefit of the doubt and judged harshly
• Deep-seated resentments exist betwixt you
• There’s increased emotional detachment from one another
• Regular inattentiveness
• Either of you are unaware or disinterested in what’s happening with the other

Life Circumstances

Life circumstances don’t directly create affairs. Instead, these issues filter through the individual and their relationship with you.  People with stronger coping skills and resilient attitudes are more likely to handle what life dishes out effectively, and are less likely to cope through affairs.

The mid-life crisis is the most popular life circumstances that people relate to infidelity. During a mid-life crisis, a man may feel that his youth is passing him by. With his virility in question, this man assumes his best years have passed him by and may cheat on his wife to see if he’s “still got it.”

Another example is a wife who is unhappy in her marriage, and chooses to have an exit affair to end the marriage while she’s still “young enough to enjoy the rest of her life.” In this situation, the affair didn’t end the marriage, but was the nail in the coffin.  People are also known to have affairs when children are introduced into the family makeup, making them feel tied down, or like a useless fifth wheel in the family.

Cheating men and cheating women have been known to use affairs to stabilize their lives, especially when they are feeling stressed or unhappy. The affair appears to provide positive balance in their stressful, boring lives, providing energy, zeal and attention when their significant others are unable to do so. The other woman (or man) in the person’s life becomes a complement to theirs, compensating for what their life at home lacks. These problems cannot be otherwise fixed or addressed until the affair itself is exposed.

Now, we’ll be honest, reasons for cheating are not excuses. Despite the fact that your husband can justify his actions, they do not excuse him from what he’s done. No matter what the reason, your cheating husband chose to cheat on you. His infidelity was a personal decision to handle things he may not have been happy with in an ineffective manner. Whether you find his reasons understandable or not, it is only wise that you still hold him accountable for his activity. Like they say, sometimes infidelity cannot be explained, but only forgiven.