http://www.hecheatedonme.net/oprah-affair-proof-your-marriage-with-m-gary-neuman/ Cause He Damn Sure Can't Help You Now... Sun, 05 Feb 2012 19:23:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 http://www.hecheatedonme.net/oprah-affair-proof-your-marriage-with-m-gary-neuman/comment-page-1/#comment-139 Emotional Infidelity and Affairs: How to Understand and Recognize Affairs of the Heart Sun, 05 Sep 2010 18:53:31 +0000 http://www.hecheatedonme.net/?p=294#comment-139 [...] M. Gary Neuman, author of Emotional Infidelity and The Truth About Cheating: Why Men Stray and What You Can Do to Prevent It, is a licensed marriage counselor who has appeared on the Oprah Winfrey Show several times to discuss the impact of sexual and emotional infidelity on relationships. During an appearance on Oprah, Neuman expertly discusses the lethalness of emotional infidelity. “An emotional affair happens when you put the bulk of your emotions into the hands of somebody outside your [relationship]. We only have so much emotional energy; the more of it we spend outside of our [relationship], the less we have inside [of it]. After a while, we simply do not have enough emotions and love and caring and time for both [people].” [...] [...] M. Gary Neuman, author of Emotional Infidelity and The Truth About Cheating: Why Men Stray and What You Can Do to Prevent It, is a licensed marriage counselor who has appeared on the Oprah Winfrey Show several times to discuss the impact of sexual and emotional infidelity on relationships. During an appearance on Oprah, Neuman expertly discusses the lethalness of emotional infidelity. “An emotional affair happens when you put the bulk of your emotions into the hands of somebody outside your [relationship]. We only have so much emotional energy; the more of it we spend outside of our [relationship], the less we have inside [of it]. After a while, we simply do not have enough emotions and love and caring and time for both [people].” [...]

]]> http://www.hecheatedonme.net/oprah-affair-proof-your-marriage-with-m-gary-neuman/comment-page-1/#comment-105 M. Gary Neuman: Cheating Men Don’t Do it For Sex Wed, 28 Jul 2010 14:20:30 +0000 http://www.hecheatedonme.net/?p=294#comment-105 [...] Taking this information, try to consider times where your partner has stepped up to the plate and handled his business, and you may not have been appreciative of his efforts. Maybe he washed the kids and put them to bed, only to be met with “Honey I’ve got a headache.” Perhaps he attempted to cook breakfast, and you laughed at his awkwardness around the kitchen. These things may not be serious to you, but you never know the affect it may have had on your partner. Make an attempt to show more gratitude in how he assists you in different things. This not only boosts the sense of connectedness between the two of you, it builds intimacy and reassures your husband that he’s good enough. Remember, for most of us – cheating men included- it’s the little things that matter. Here are three  proven strategies to prevent cheating in a relationship. [...] [...] Taking this information, try to consider times where your partner has stepped up to the plate and handled his business, and you may not have been appreciative of his efforts. Maybe he washed the kids and put them to bed, only to be met with “Honey I’ve got a headache.” Perhaps he attempted to cook breakfast, and you laughed at his awkwardness around the kitchen. These things may not be serious to you, but you never know the affect it may have had on your partner. Make an attempt to show more gratitude in how he assists you in different things. This not only boosts the sense of connectedness between the two of you, it builds intimacy and reassures your husband that he’s good enough. Remember, for most of us – cheating men included- it’s the little things that matter. Here are three  proven strategies to prevent cheating in a relationship. [...]

]]> http://www.hecheatedonme.net/oprah-affair-proof-your-marriage-with-m-gary-neuman/comment-page-1/#comment-9 The Real Reason You’re Being Cheated on – It Doesn’t Involve Blowjobs | He Cheated On Me Sun, 14 Mar 2010 05:18:23 +0000 http://www.hecheatedonme.net/?p=294#comment-9 [...] supportive and romantic relationship with your husband or wife is the best preventative measure to affair-proof your marriage. However, if he’s already cheated,  and you want to fix your marriage, take the time to [...] [...] supportive and romantic relationship with your husband or wife is the best preventative measure to affair-proof your marriage. However, if he’s already cheated,  and you want to fix your marriage, take the time to [...]

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