Comments on: 4 Reasons Why Men Cheat and You’re Not the One to Blame! http://www.hecheatedonme.net/my-husband-cheated-his-affair-sexual-not-your-fault/ Cause He Damn Sure Can't Help You Now... Sun, 05 Feb 2012 19:23:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Elle Peterson http://www.hecheatedonme.net/my-husband-cheated-his-affair-sexual-not-your-fault/comment-page-1/#comment-839 Elle Peterson Mon, 18 Apr 2011 00:28:34 +0000 http://www.hecheatedonme.net/?p=93#comment-839 How many articles have you read? Who is being villanized? There are plenty of articles and anecdotes on this site where we tell readers who have been cheated on that they need to take responsibility for what happens at times when they do contribute to the situation. Reference: <a href="http://www.hecheatedonme.net/3-reasons-why-anyone-cheats/" rel="nofollow">http://www.hecheatedonme.net/3-reasons-why-anyone...</a> It's not that someone isn't interested in their lover's problems, but if that person decides the best way to deal with them is to handle them with sexual, emotional or intimate release with another person, then they've decided to isolate their partner from the situation. Someone- man or woman- can always take the option of kicking the other person to the curb if they don't feel respected, happy and loved in their relationship, no matter what the situation is. Additionally, this site has answers and perspectives that widen to embrace a larger variety of opinions and thoughts, such as yours. I'd definitely be interested in learning more of what you'd like to discuss since you feel quite differently than many of the other commenters and writers here :) How many articles have you read? Who is being villanized?

There are plenty of articles and anecdotes on this site where we tell readers who have been cheated on that they need to take responsibility for what happens at times when they do contribute to the situation.

Reference: http://www.hecheatedonme.net/3-reasons-why-anyone…

It's not that someone isn't interested in their lover's problems, but if that person decides the best way to deal with them is to handle them with sexual, emotional or intimate release with another person, then they've decided to isolate their partner from the situation. Someone- man or woman- can always take the option of kicking the other person to the curb if they don't feel respected, happy and loved in their relationship, no matter what the situation is.

Additionally, this site has answers and perspectives that widen to embrace a larger variety of opinions and thoughts, such as yours. I'd definitely be interested in learning more of what you'd like to discuss since you feel quite differently than many of the other commenters and writers here :)

]]> By: Let's Be Real http://www.hecheatedonme.net/my-husband-cheated-his-affair-sexual-not-your-fault/comment-page-1/#comment-838 Let's Be Real Sun, 17 Apr 2011 23:38:37 +0000 http://www.hecheatedonme.net/?p=93#comment-838 There's a definite theme among these articles that says "a cheating man's issues have nothing to do with me". And then there is also this assertion tha cheating is a "betrayal", that is painful and somehow personal, because "he should have told you if something was wrong". I feel like you cant say his reasons are irrelevent and then blame him for an action. If you aren't interested in his problems, why are you interested in how he deals with them? There's a lot of villainizing going on on this site, and though I by no means condone cheating, it would be nice to see a litle more recognition that even "cheaters" are human beings whom deserve respect and someone to listen to their side of the story. There's a definite theme among these articles that says "a cheating man's issues have nothing to do with me". And then there is also this assertion tha cheating is a "betrayal", that is painful and somehow personal, because "he should have told you if something was wrong".

I feel like you cant say his reasons are irrelevent and then blame him for an action. If you aren't interested in his problems, why are you interested in how he deals with them?

There's a lot of villainizing going on on this site, and though I by no means condone cheating, it would be nice to see a litle more recognition that even "cheaters" are human beings whom deserve respect and someone to listen to their side of the story.

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