Five Infidelity Victims Give Sandra Bullock Advice to Cope With Jesse James’ Cheating
Ever since Oscar-winning actress Sandra Bullock’s husband has been busted cheating on her with as many as four women, the actress’ life has been turned upside down. Having been in hiding since the news broke, sources say Bullock’s been in the care of friends and family. A trusted source claims that she is utterly devastated and hasn’t been to the home she shared with James since.
PopEater assembled five women who’ve been cheated on to give their personal perspective and advice to this heartbroken woman in her time of need. Although there’s no guarantee that Bullock knows or cares about the advice given in the article, titled, Five Infidelity Victims Offer Advice for Sandra Bullock, we found the advice truthful and heartfelt. Though the comments are directly meant for Bullock, we found the advice to be pleasantly appealing and universal to anyone who’s dealing with a cheating boyfriend, girlfriend or spouse.
Among the suggestions and thoughts provided:
1) Cheating is never about sex, but a signal that something is wrong in the relationship. Whether or not it is our fault is something we cannot immediately answer, but it will be up to us to take note and either work on saving our troubled marriage or relationship, or let it go.
2) Even when your heart if broken by a cheating husband, your feelings cannot turn on and off at will. Take time for yourself, and remember that if you choose to forgive cheating spouse, sometimes a “second chance is worth it.”
3) If Jesse expects to be fully forgiven for his sexual infidelity – and Sandra decides to take him back – he needs to do everything he can to gain back her trust and respect. This would also apply to anyone who’s cheated on a person they loved.
4) Love, like fine, exquisite crystal, is a beautiful, brilliant, sparkling creation when built with trust, yet extremely fragile. When you destroy trust, you shatter the glass. You might eventually repair it, but you will always see the glue lines and it will never regain its original luster. Hopefully, Jesse James will treat his next piece of crystal with care.
5) Some people don’t respect or understand the value or loyalty. Hold your head high and don’t allow a cheating husband’s lack of class or character become your problem.
6) Give yourself the gift of patience as you deal with your cheating husband’s infidelity. Understand your emotions will be crazy and unpredictable for a while.
7) In the end, if you remain calm and level-headed about your cheater’s infidelity, and simply end your relationship, you can be the “one who got away.” Making yourself appear classier gives you the upper hand, and you will always remind that person of the fact that they messed up a really good thing when they cheated on you.
8) The best revenge after being cheated on? Living well and enjoying life to the best of your ability, indulging in all it has to offer.
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