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Cheating Husband? 5 Flaky FrenemiesWho Don’t Care
Your girlfriends are your rocks in time of need, helping you celebrate the greatest events of your life and helping you through your darkest times. Besides death, when will you need your friends more than when you deal with a cheating husband?
Getting support from your best pals during this time should be the easiest part of your recovery. Unfortunately, this isn’t always the case. You may instead learn who your real friends are when you realize they’re not as sympathetic, helpful or available as they are during the good times. These 5 types in particular are the ones to watch out for – and dump if necessary.
Penelope the Hot Poker – Penelope’s an unhappy woman, and she’s relishing in your anger. Like a poker that carefully strokes over the embers and keeps the fire burning, she methodically works over your emotions to keep you in a continuous state of aggravation over your philandering man’s behavior. She’s always firing you up, saying things like, “Oh, you don’t think he was screwing every bitch in sight, do you?” or “I wonder if he used protection with her?” She can even serve you a few underhanded jabs, hoping “that you’re not too old to start dating again.”
Vampy Vanessa - Vanessa has always had eyes for your man, and has never taken big pains to hide this. When you reveal the problems in your marriage, her true agenda comes into question. She will remind you of all those times your husband commented on how hot she is, or even coyly ask, “So… you said your husband is going to be single soon?” She’s cool to party with, and can even make a great flirt when it comes to meeting guys, but she’s not even worth a text message until you’ve got your head on straight.
Dumbass Denise – Denise is completely oblivious to you and what goes on in your life. When you call her and scream about how your husband is cheating, she’s going to pause, then ask, “Who’s cheating? You got a boyfriend or something?” This isn’t the time to play catch up – so catch her later.
Indifferent Inez – Inez does not care about what you’re going through. Well, let’s rephrase that. Inez does care about what you’re going through, but in the grand scheme of things, doesn’t feel it’s highly important that your husband is sleeping with other women. She’ll remind you that no matter what you’re going through, someone is always dealing with worse, citing child trafficking, rape and Mexican drug wars as examples. This perspective is refreshing and helpful, but not in the midst of your own personal crisis.
Neurotic Nancy – Nancy is more fixated than on your husband’s infidelity than you are. No matter what happens, she’s always thinking of it, mentioning it and finding new ways to talk about it. It doesn’t matter if you’re discussing the proper ratio of salt and pepper on french fries; Nancy will somehow link the subject to your husband and his mistress. You’ll be driven nuts by her maniacal obsession, making it the only topic of choice no matter how inappropriate it is.
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