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Monthly Archives: January 2010

"My Wife Doesn’t Understand Me" – The One Lie He Tells His Mistress to Hook Her

Instead of running from this red flag, the other woman will more than likely feel flattered that your man has chosen her to confide in. His lamentations build a false sense of intimacy that plays on her ego, making her further open to his advances. Besides, why would she be upset when he’s not talking about her, but talking to her… about your shortcomings?Continue Reading

Boyfriend is a Bartender. He Cheated Once, Can I Trust Him Again?

You cannot accept his infidelity as a “slip”, because it wasn’t a one-time incident. Slips are moreso accidental f*ck-ups . A slip-up is when a man’s drunk and has a one night stand, or he has a no-strings-attached hookup after you guys argue. Additionally, slips are unplanned and usually come with lots of regret. (Not that this makes things acceptable.) What he had was a consistent series of trysts with another woman. He deliberately lied to you each and every time he was going to see her as well, making this anything but a “mistake.” If anything, the fact that he got caught acting a fool with this woman is the mistake.
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I Want to Forgive Cheating Husband, But Don’t Know How

A final word about friends and your husband’s infidelity: We won’t say that you can’t confide in them, because sometimes a friend with an open ear is all you need to feel better. Just make sure your friend doesn’t become your therapist; if things get too rough, consider looking for a professional either for yourself or for marriage counseling.Continue Reading

Your Man Cheating? Find out On Christmas!

I hear stories all year long from women talking about this guy and that guy, but when it comes to the holidays, especially the Christmas holiday, he’s nowhere to be found and she’s sitting at home alone watching ‘Home Alone’ (pun intended). Women also, tend to consider some acknowledgement during the holidays as genuine care and concern, which is why a lot of men tend to get away with their cheating ways. In my honest opinion, if you two do not spend the entire day together, chances are he needed his time apart to let someone else know how important they are.
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Husband Hates Marriage Counseling

Marriage counseling is a good opportunity for couples to work through their issues under the direction of an unbiased party. Marital counseling will help a couple discover what brought them to the painful crossroads in their relationships. In counseling sessions, alliances are formed between you, your spouse and the therapist, and they all abide by the belief that you are unique individuals who are to be looked at individually and as a couple.
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