Instead of running from this red flag, the other woman will more than likely feel flattered that your man has chosen her to confide in. His lamentations build a false sense of intimacy that plays on her ego, making her further open to his advances. Besides, why would she be upset when he’s not talking about her, but talking to her… about your shortcomings?… Continue Reading
A final word about friends and your husband’s infidelity: We won’t say that you can’t confide in them, because sometimes a friend with an open ear is all you need to feel better. Just make sure your friend doesn’t become your therapist; if things get too rough, consider looking for a professional either for yourself or for marriage counseling.… Continue Reading
I hear stories all year long from women talking about this guy and that guy, but when it comes to the holidays, especially the Christmas holiday, he’s nowhere to be found and she’s sitting at home alone watching ‘Home Alone’ (pun intended). Women also, tend to consider some acknowledgement during the holidays as genuine care and concern, which is why a lot of men tend to get away with their cheating ways. In my honest opinion, if you two do not spend the entire day together, chances are he needed his time apart to let someone else know how important they are.
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Marriage counseling is a good opportunity for couples to work through their issues under the direction of an unbiased party. Marital counseling will help a couple discover what brought them to the painful crossroads in their relationships. In counseling sessions, alliances are formed between you, your spouse and the therapist, and they all abide by the belief that you are unique individuals who are to be looked at individually and as a couple.
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