Do All Men Cheat The Same Exact Way?

Do Men Follow a Script When They Cheat?

While we’d personally like to think that all men are individual in the way they behave, some people swear that all men act and behave the same, especially in terms of being cheaters. But others have taken this idea even futher, expressing that some men are not only the same in cheating, but cheat in exactly the same manner.

The Script: The 100% Absolutely Predictable Things Men Do When They Cheat asserts this very argument. The authors, Elizabeth Landers and Vicky Mainzer, proclaim that all men, whether big or small, rich or poor, follow a specific script when they’re unfaithful to their wives and girlfriends.

Landers and Mainzer describe the script as “funny, sad and amazing” all at the same time. “We think cheating revolves around love and sex and intrigue and illicit encounters- and it does. But men talk and ac as if there was a script [or] a manual they all have a copy of and took a course on.”
The Script is comprised of 31 scenes broken down into 4 parts: the Overture, Act I: BeforeHe Leaves, Act II: After He Leaves, and The Finale. Throughout the book, we learn a plentiful number of different phrases that men use that subtly – or in some cases, obviously – reveal they’re cheating.

Now, we’ll be honest. I think every man is an individual, just like every woman. However, after reading this book, we must admit that this script appears legit. Reading through the book,wea all remembered the different tales our girlfriends had on guys who had spun several of the exact same lines on them! We’re talking everything from trying to convince them they were crazy and had insecurity issues (Overture: Scene 2), to picking fights in order to create dischord and pre-separate from their women (Act 1: Scene 4) and even continuing to deny his sexual relationship with the other woman even after he’s left you (Act 2: Scene 8).

The book is easy to read, informative, mildly humorous and highly entertaining. Whether you’re current going through The Script yourself, or know someone who is, you’ll enjoy this tongue-in-cheek read that’s sure to prepare you to handle your man’s affair… or recognize the signs of it in the future.

 

If you’re interested in reading The Script further, check out the reviews of the book on Amazon.

12 Last-Minute Gift Ideas for the Newly-Single or Divorced

7 Great Last-Minute Gifts for Newly Divorced or Single Women

Hopefully you’ve already wrapped up your holiday shopping, but if you haven’t and are still searching for that perfect gift idea for the woman in your life who’s recently divorced, single or otherwise separated from her husband, check out these possibilities.
1. Women’s Toolbox Kit: As a new divorcee, your loved one will more than likely find herself in impromptu situations where her home improvement skills will be put to the test. Luckily enough, several manufacturers offer fantastic toolkits especially designed for women. Check out K-Tools’ Lavender Premium-Grade Home Project Tool Set with Zip Case, Apollo’s Precision Tools 39-piece Pink General Tool Set, or Think Pink’s Fully Loaded Tote Bag.

2.  Women’s Fragrance: Women’s fragrances might seem a little cliché and run-of-the-mill, but you can almost never go wrong with giving your favorite woman some love with a great fragrance. The key is to purchase a fragrance within the same scent category she usually prefers, or taking a small, inconspicuous peek at which fragrances she uses most heavily in her beauty stash. If you’re totally lost, snag bestsellers like Dolce & Gabbana’s The One for Women.

Now, if you’re the (soon-to-be) ex-husband or boyfriend and want to impress her with an exclusive splurge, look into something lavish like Clive Christian No. 1 Pure Perfume Spray for Women. It’s rich, sensuous Oriental scent is a cult favorite for the socialite.

3. Luxury Bath & Body Care: Help her get her sexy back with some ultra-lush bath & body items that smooth, soften and moisturize her skin to perfection. Karma Bath Melt by LUSH has a sensuous, sumptuous fragrance that melts into the skin, and L’Amande Italian Luxury Moisturizing Cream is a great treat for the entire body.

4. Chocolate: Most women love chocolate. Godiva Choclatier offers chocolate giftsets in a multitude of flavors and varieties from white chocolate mixes to dark chocolate truffles.

5. HealthyToes Toe Stretchers relax and de-stress hard-working toes after a long day. These can be a great treat for a newly-single mom who needs just 5-15 minutes to chill after a long day.

6. NARS Orgasm. NARS’ cult shade Orgasm is not only a favorite of all women, but it’s an award-winning versatile shade that flatters all skin tones, types and colors. Whether she uses it as lipstick, lip gloss, highlighter, or in any other fashion, it’s a must-have for any woman who wants to put a little oomph in her appearance or add rosiness to her cheeks.

7. philosophy’s got some amazing gifts for her this holiday season. With an array of lush bath and beauty products in amazing scents, you are sure to find something alluring and appealing to while perusing this site. We absolutely LOVE Amazing Grace.

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