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Monthly Archives: November 2009

He Wants to Go to A Strip Club! I’m Scared He Wants to Cheat on Me

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Strip clubs are so scary for women because we can’t help but view them as a one-stop temptation for our men – mixing booze, boobs, and boyfriends never seems like a good idea. But the truth is a man doesn’t need a strip club to be tempted by some skank in a short skirt – any trip to the mall, local bar, or friend’s house can have the same end result. Of course, having girls covered in oil writhing in front of him might be a tad more appealing than the checkout girl at Best Buy, but in either situation the act of cheating and the burden that comes along with it rests on your man’s shoulders.
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Infidelity Conversations 10: My Husband’s Affair Killed My Sexual Desire For Him

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My Heart’s Not in Saving the Marriage In an effort to rebuild your marriage, your husband whisks you off on an exotic getaway. He’s putting all his effort into saving your marriage and stopping divorce in its tracks but you can’t seem to get excited by his attempts to rekindle the flame. As a result,… Continue Reading

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Infidelity Conversations 9: Everything Reminds Me that He Cheated on Me

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Ideally, your husband’s response wouldn’t be so frozen; he’d understand exactly what you’re going through and respond in a kind, loving manner that would put you at ease, especially since he knows he’s part of the reason you’re feeling so low. But he can’t – his head-in-the-sand approach is his way of staying out of hot water since he doesn’t know how to handle this situation.
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Infidelity Conversations 8: Dealing with Infidelity, Cheating Spouse and In-Laws

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“Cheating Spouse Doesn’t Want to Visit My Family” Both your families know about your man’s infidelity, as you made sure everyone knew how much of a dog he was when he cheated on you. Despite the fact that you’ve taken him back and feel that all is now well, or on the way to being… Continue Reading

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Infidelity Conversations 7: The Other Woman Still Tries to Sleep With My Husband

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If his reaction pisses you off, this is understandable. Why would anyone think your reaction is anything but justified considering the history between these two, nevermind the fact that she’s still trying to sleep with him? However, you have to take a look at your husband’s behavior. Is he encouraging the other woman’s behavior? Does he still talk to her on the phone, email her or act in a manner that would send a message saying that it’s only a “matter of time” before he’s back in her arms? If so, then you might want to discuss why he’s still so pleasant with her, and see if you need to be on guard. His pleasantries don’t guarantee that he’ll cheat again but they can be a strong signal to watch out for him.
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